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Your Value System and Decision Making

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cc pixabay Value is a very ambiguous word. As a matter of fact, its ambiguity is closely associated with its relativity. From this concept, we begin to look at a form of dichotomy between the IDEAL and the REALITY. Looking deeper though, in the complexity of their differences, one could still string up a relationship between them. Cutting to the chase now, it is your definition of your values that paints up your ideal world which you try to emphasize in the real world through your decisions. Values definition or identification marauds around your belief system. Your assessment of what is good or evil; right or wrong. It is quite a cumbersome cognitive relativity that could paint the world in different colours. At this level as youngies, it is aptly relevant to your Self Discovery. Decision making is an everyday task which requires a higher level of evaluation rather than just knowledge. Life throws questions perpetually and you need to provide answers asap because the time fac...

The Teen-age World: Point of Self Discovery.

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cc.pixabay   Being a teenager is one of the greatest feelings in the world! You as an individual, arrive at this period of your life with a lot of energy to burn; ideas to implement; curiosity to satisfy; opinions to express; adventures to undertake and; an overload of expectations for the not too distant future. It is a period in time when you tend to feel in control of your own world, mapping out strategies, developing your character,building your self esteem and getting ready for your future. However, it is also a vital period to think, pay great attention and to try to make the right decisions. Do not forget that the most important time in your life is TODAY . It fizzles into yesterday and transcends to tomorrow or future! The most important decision is the one made today; it would either lead to regrets or fulfillment. One of my favourite quotes from EasyWords says " You cannot focus on yesterday or think too much about the future because you cannot influence the...

Welcome to the Forum

Good day to you. I am sure you have turned in to this website because you believe there is so much for you to get here. I want to assure that for every moment you check in, you would not regret. Rather, you will be filled up with information, views and discussions that would send you into rigorous thinking for a better life you can always live. Once again, Welcome! WHAT IS TSM ABOUT ? Talking Sensitive Matters is a forum and platform for the discussion of benign issues as it affects the lives of Teenagers   in particular. You would readily agree with me that teenagers are a very special group of people. They are faced with a flurry of crucial decisions to take at a very pivotal and game changing moment of their lives. Thus, it is important for them to be guided. TSM   therefore , offers a platform for teens to grow into a godly generation of youths and adults that are grounded in the ways of God and have apt and acute understanding of life principles so as to be able to ...