Creating Your Happiness

Many people will not achieve any goals in 2019. Okay. Some people are already pissed ..like you've had enough of this my purported pessimism. However, I do say so and it's not without reason. Many people are not happy. They are mired in contexts that don't trigger their happiness. It could be the family set up they are in, the career they work, the relationship they are in or anything at all. 

You need to understand that you cannot perform at full potential without happiness. The Bible has said , "a merry heart does good like medicine". Take it that if you are weighed down, you cannot take a lift.

Taking a Lift by Happiness

It's important to understand that performance is to a degree dependent on commitment and your commitment might just be a function of how happy, relaxed, motivated and content you are with your working situations.

Cutting to the chase, there are people you need to show the door. We tend to keep some people hanging around in our lives for different reasons and benefits.

 "We are either using someone or someone uses us" easy words. 

The reality of life is that nobody can live in isolation. Try it. You would soon find that even on the deserted island, there are still one or two people tucked in different parts. Ask Crusoe and Gulliver. Yet, you cannot have everyone just as you cannot have everything. You need to sieve your relationship.. It's a cliché but it's the truth! People that bug you down, people that make you feel inferior, people that make you the centre of ridiculous jokes, you need to shut them out. 

"There are haters, whatever the word means, everywhere! You are an hater to someone as much as someone else is an hater to you " easy words.


The concept of haters only come up when we realize there are people who will not agree with what we are doing; people who do not like to see us progress or do better than them; people who just do not like us for whatever reason which only them are privy to. Yet, I think it's normal you are not liked by everyone and thus you have no apologies for shutting them away.

I always say that there are people you might not like, maybe you do not hate them. You simply do not vibe. Show them the door! It is not by force especially when you are losing sleep trying to make things work. Lock up that shop and throw the key in the ocean!

Your happiness is important for your success and you don't want to spend another year looking over your shoulders like an errant child seeking approval. Sack the people that need to be fired in your life. Hey, you do not even need to serve them a notice. 

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